“Sacred has helped me truly discover who I am and who I'm meant to be.”
“I look in the mirror and finally love my body!” - Jane H.
“I haven’t felt like MYSELF in so long! Now, (after SACRED) I am the most comfortable and confident in my own skin I’ve ever been.” - Alyssa M.
I’m a certified life coach, speaker and creator of the award-winning program Sacred: 7 Pillars of Self-Love and Liberation. Through my coaching, I help women heal their inner critic, build self-compassion, and liberate themselves through the power of self love. The 7 Pillars of Self-Love and Liberation are my method of empowering women to dismantle the programming that no longer works for them, learn the tools of emotional wholeness, come into full self-expression and create a life that integrates with their soul. My work is informed by mystic spirituality, Somatic Psychology, and my lived experience as a biracial woman of color.
Why I teach self-love:
I know what it’s like to be a big “feeler”, filled with profound questions about life, yet plagued by self-doubt, and complex emotions.
I also know what it’s like to go to yoga class, read all the wellness books and join healing programs, but still feel like a fraud, because underneath all that still exists a twinge of unworthiness.
I lived for 10 years with an inner-critic who constantly told me, “you’re not enough.”
I was stuck in a continuous loop of self-criticism. Constantly striving, feeling doubtful, burdened by a general heaviness over my life, and uncertain what my purpose or mission was here on earth.
Then, a friend asked me a question that changed the course of my life. He said, “Devin, if you’re not your own best friend, who are you to yourself?”
I knew the answer was: I’m my own worst enemy.
It was a confronting realization. And I was faced with a choice: continue my pattern of self-hate, or learn how to make peace with myself and grow into self-love.
This realization led me on a multi-year journey to heal my worthiness wound. I worked with mentors and coaches, finding deep healing through hypnosis, somatic experiencing, talk therapy, self-portraiture and by sitting in circle with women who could reflect the truth of my goodness and power.
I envision a world where people deeply, authentically love themselves and that love spills over into their lives and the people they love. This work is not trivial or selfish, because when a woman owns her power, radically accepts her true self and is fully expressed, she changes her lineage. Sacred is my offering to help women around the world step into this reality. When you join Sacred, you join a healing place for you to embrace and love who you are and be embraced and loved by others, too.
Are you ready to choose the path of self-love and write a new story for yourself and your family tree?
Pillar 1: COMPASSION
The first step of Sacred Self-Love is compassion. Self-compassion means you are gentle and kind to yourself. You offer yourself forgiveness for both past and present situations. You do not search for flaws in yourself, but lovingly acknowledge your humanity and all the messiness that comes with it.
You do not harbor resentment toward yourself, you are on your own team.
Pillar 2: AFFECTION
Affection is about giving tenderness and love to yourself (especially your inner child) and open up to create a container of safety. When you feel tenderness and care for yourself, you can see and meet your own needs and hold space for any experiences of hurt, fear, longing or joy.
Pillar 3: VALIDATION
The pillar of validation is about suspending all judgments you have towards yourself or your emotions and instead simply being curious about what your emotions and feelings are trying to tell you. When you can approach emotions as a curious friend rather than a judgmental critic, you can move through the feelings and learn from them. Feeling your feelings is a deeply self-loving act and helps you to become a better friend and companion to yourself.
Pillar 4: REVERENCE
Reverence is about respecting the truth of who you are. It's about integrating your shadow without shame and honoring your wholeness--imperfections included. Through the act of reverence, you honor the maiden in you who deserves to be witness in her fullness, and ultimately elevated to rightful place as queen of your own life. Reverence is the essence of telling your truth to the world.
Pillar 5: TRUST
When you trust yourself, you know how to live. You know what is right for you (and what is wrong). You recognize and honor your intuition. You don't let yourself down or break promises to yourself, because you're in a committed, trusting relationship with yourself. You trust yourself with your life and stop outsourcing it to "the experts", your family, social media or anyone else.
You trust you with your life.
Pillar 6: SOVEREIGNTY
Sovereignty is about taking full responsibility for your life. It involves recognizing your own authority in creating the life and relationships you desire. It requires you to claim growth and healing rather than staying in pain and victimhood. When you step into sovereignty, you choose your own voice, your own beliefs, your own truth. You no longer blame others or make excuses for the reasons you or your life is not how you desire it to be, you step up and create the life you desire.
Pillar 7: RADIANCE
The final step in embodied self-love is radiance. The more you embody self love, the more you radiate your worth without fear of being seen or “too much.” When you embody radiance, you walk into a room and feel worthy of being there. You radiate the love that you feel within and you share this love with others—it’s contagious. This radiance you embody helps you magnetize relationships and blessings in your life! And most importantly, you can look at yourself and truly say, “I love you so much.”
$500 for 7 weeks of depth-coaching in a group container and lifetime access to course materials
Scholarships available:
For those who need financial support to make this program work, use code: “Community” for $100 off
- JULIA | LONDON, ENGLAND
“I love my body now! I look in the mirror and really love who I see.” - Jane | Grand Rapids, Michigan
“I actually took up drawing and painting again! I had left this hobby by the wayside for so long in order to evade that inner voice of criticism, but with the support of this course I felt liberated and inspired to make art again.” - Julia | London, England
“I haven’t felt like MYSELF in so long! Now, (after SACRED) I am the most comfortable and confident in my own skin I’ve ever been. I can look in the mirror and SEE and KNOW who I am (quarantine weight gain and all!), what I am capable of and the power that is within me! This self-love work is not easy work, nor is it something that will happen overnight…but this is absolutely worth it!" - Alyssa | San Diego, California
Imagine radiating joy and self-love like this after just a few months! Each woman here experienced a radical change in self-love and self-confidence in just two months of the beta program! Imagine what’s possible with 6 months of this work? Plus they raved about the added bonus of new heart-centered friends! Look at them glow. Could this be you?
And get your instant download “Awakening Self-Love & Healing Generations” meditation.
As your coach, I will loving and powerfully guide you toward the truth of who you are and equip you with the tools to become the most confident, self-loving YOU possible! I’ve radically transformed my own life (and helped dozens of clients) through the art of SACRED self-love and I can show you how to do the same!
SACRED Begins April 2022
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.”
— MARIANNE WILLIAMSON
- JOSIE / EVERETT, WA
(Frequently Asked Questions)
Sacred is a 7-week experience.
While live participation is highly encouraged, you will also have lifetime access to the course materials and Facebook community as well as recordings of the weekly calls.
You can expect to spend between 2-3 hours/week during our time in Sacred. The weekly lesson is 1 hour and the weekly optional group calls are 2 hours long.
The 7 Pillars are: Compassion, Affection, Reverence, Validation, Trust, Sovereignty and Radiance. Devin provides an in-depth masterclass on each pillar as well as a companion meditation and worksheet to take the content deeper.
When you join SACRED, you will get the option to join a group coaching call every week. Calls will toggle between daytime and evening to accommodate various time zones.
Yes, all content will be recorded, so if you miss a live call, you can catch the replay!
The 7 Masterclasses (pre-recorded trainings) in the SACRED Masterclass Library will also be recorded and available for you to watch and rewatch as many times as you’d like.
The Meditations in the SACRED Meditation Library and any bonus trainings will also be recorded and accessible for you to revisit when you need.
All pre-recorded content is “lifetime access”; meaning even after you’ve completed this program (even years later) you can return to the material!
Each group call will last approximately 2 hours and the number of participants depends on how many people attend that week. However, no matter how large or small the group, every participant will be welcome to “raise their hand” for live coaching and support.
You will have lifetime access to all recorded materials: including Masterclasses, Meditations and any Bonus Trainings!
This high-touch immersive group program is unlike any other. You can spend thousands of dollars on spiritual retreats, therapy, or self-help books, but if you don’t have the foundation of self-love, much of that work will not integrate or work for you. (Read client testimonials that confirm this). Many of the previous participants speak of spending years in therapy but never finding true breakthrough until they did the work of self-love and truly accepted themselves. So, consider this a lifetime investment in your wellness, relationships and future. The investment in SACRED is $500 with payment plans and scholarships available.
We stand by this program and know that it is life changing for anyone who commits to the work. However, if you join SACRED, participate in the group calls, worksheets and masterclasses for 2 weeks and are still not convinced that this program will make a difference in your life, we will refund your investment and remove you from the program. No refunds will be offered after the 2-week period or for those who did not engage with the content or complete the modules.
SACRED will be offered again in spring 2023.
Yes, visit www.devinjones.co/coaching for more information.
But also: Devin believes that community is the greatest healing container which is why SACRED is designed to be done within sisterhood. You are encouraged to bring your specific questions and challenges to the group call where Devin will coach you individually and where you will be held in the sacred container of everyone else’s love, attention and support. Being seen, held and coached in this way is transformational, and it doesn’t need to happen in a 1:1 setting. We are wounded in community and we heal in community—this co-regulation has lasting impacts and goes beyond the limited model of 1:1 support. Many students are surprised by how much growth and healing they receive specifically from going through this program as a group—in fact, they prefer it to 1:1 support.
These are just a few examples of the kind of healing you can experience when you do the work of sacred self-love:
Feeling more joyful on a daily basis, free from the anxiety of constantly criticizing or fixing yourself
Releasing comparison that has kept you feeling “less than” and stuck
Radically change your inner dialogue from self-criticism to loving-kindness
Learning healthy emotional processing, so you don’t bypass or shut down emotions, but actually move them through your body in a gentle and honoring way
Feeling your heart more, not being stuck in your head or numbed out of life, but being truly in your heart and knowing what you truly want
Loving the feeling of being in your own skin, no longer looking online and envying the life, body, relationship, or career of someone else, but loving who YOU are and consciously creating the life you desire
Creating healthy, strong relationships rooted in worthiness, and no longer perpetuating toxic patterns wherein you need to save or fix yourself or anyone else
Seeing yourself through the eyes of LOVE
Having more fun and adventure because you’ve unlock your creativity and vibrancy
Better sex and intimacy because you welcome and feel safe receiving pleasure
Respecting yourself, no longer tolerating what doesn’t work for you and building up the courage and boundaries to say so
Asking for what you need, taking up space, standing up for yourself, using your voice
Celebrating what is truly amazing about you (even if you don’t see it yet)
Trusting yourself, knowing your intuition and following it towards what it right for you
Building deep friendships where you are safe to be yourself
Making better, faster decisions and not staying stuck in limbo around big life decisions
Trusting your own inner knowing more than relying on the opinions of others
Taking radical responsibility for your life and knowing what to do with it
Pursuing the career, passion or relationship you’ve really wanted, finally!
Living fully expressed—not holding back or making yourself small, but joyfully being YOU
Finding acceptance within yourself so you magnetize people who see your worth, too
Looking in the mirror and saying, “I love who I see in the reflection”
See you on the inside ♡
From being the girl who always struggled with self-worth to finally finding freedom from my inner mean girl, my purpose is to lead clients to deep acceptance, clarity and self-love.
I teach women to change their inner dialogue, to accept and celebrate themselves, and to stop their daily suffering so they can begin living a life of peace, joy, courage and self-love.
Because a shiny Stanford degree, a fancy job title and a wedding ring by 24 weren’t enough to create true deep contentment about my life. Only self-love could do that for me.
Once I realized I was my own worst critic, I knew there had to be another way to live…with more love, peace, and joy; and less doubt, confusion and suffering.
From here, I went on a long spiritual journey diving into therapy, coaching, yoga, meditation, psychology, spiritual transformation and inner healing. My goal was to heal my relationship to my self.
I soon became the youngest-ever certified Gallup Strengths Coach and went on to helped thousands of college students know their own worth, strengths and potential. I knew that others were suffering the way I had for so many years and I wanted to help people know “There is nothing wrong with you.”
Today, I coach women all over the world to know their worth, love themselves and accept themselves exactly as they are.
In 2021, Sacred was recognized as Program of the Year by the Beautiful You Coaching Academy. Sacred Woman has undergone rigorous evaluation by expert coaches and selected as a premiere group coaching program. When you join Sacred Woman, you have the chance to change your life.
